One of my brides asked me what I thought about her having a cash bar at their reception. It’s not in their budget so I sat down with her and did a little research on the web so she could see what others are doing in this situation.
Q. We’re getting married in a nice, traditional banquet hall that has an outdoor space for people to be inside and outside through the evening. My parents are paying for the reception, but my fiancé and I are paying for everything else. Since they are paying for the reception, we are wondering if it’s ok to have a cash bar, as opposed to an open bar. Is that something that is frowned upon? I’ve read in some places that it’s an awful idea and in others that it’s ok. What’s your opinion?
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A. While it is often necessary to find ways to cut costs, a cash bar is never a good choice. When you have a wedding, you’re inviting people to a party, and they shouldn’t have to pay for anything while they’re there. Yes, it’s true that when you have a bash in your apartment and invite all your pals, you say “BYOB,” but it’s not quite the same at a formal event. Better to try and save money on the alcohol itself — and don’t worry, there are a number of ways to do that.
Consider having a “limited” bar. Serve only soda, beer, and wine or have a champagne toast. Some couples have a signature wedding cocktail, which cuts down on the different liquors and ingredients you’ll be purchasing. Also, confirm whether you have to buy your alcohol from the place where the wedding reception will be. You may have signed a contract that says so, but if not, it’s generally much cheaper to buy your own liquor, wholesale — you can get more for your money, and get what you want. ~The Knot
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What do you think? Cash bar or not?